Returning to School after a Cancer Diagnosis? Ask for Help!
Written by: Tulsi Kapadia
The transition to return to school can be exceptionally difficult after a long period of cancer treatment. I experienced this firsthand. I was diagnosed with cancer early in Grade 7, which caused me to miss eight of the ten months in that school year and much of the next because I was still on active treatment. It was challenging to manage my health and academics simultaneously, but I found that there were a few things that made school a bit easier.
If you’re anything like me, you don’t like to get “special treatment.” However, it is warranted sometimes and I recommend you try doing everything you can to make your school life less difficult. Here are some of my tips to make the transition easier, especially if you’re in middle school or high school.
Count on your friends
One thing I found very challenging after my return to school was my social life. Before diagnosis, my main way of socializing was with friends at school. But when I returned to the classroom the following year, I hardly knew anyone. I requested the school transfer one of my close friends into my class which made the school year significantly more manageable for me. I had someone I could talk with; he introduced me to other people which helped me build my social skills. Also, if I ever fell behind on schoolwork, I could rely on my friend to catch me up with anything I missed. Having that one friend can be a huge help socially and academically, both of which I really appreciated back then.
Get support from your teachers
Another incredibly useful support is to have understanding teachers who are willing to accommodate you regarding tests and assignments. This means taking the time to explain your diagnosis and any related issues you may still be experiencing. When your teachers are informed and willing to support you, this allows you to focus on your health if there are times when you don’t feel too great. The biggest thing about support from teachers is not to be afraid of asking for extensions when you need the extra time. If you come across a teacher who does not understand your situation, it would be best to speak with a guidance counsellor or the principal to see if they can help you get the accommodations you need.
Build strength by asking for help
The bottom line is that it’s okay to ask for help or speak up if you have an idea for a way to make your transition back to school easier. It’s an exciting and challenging time and some people will understand that and support you. Remember, asking for help is a strength, not a weakness!
The 2021 Survivor to Survivor Network Workshop Series is Coming Soon!
The S2S facilitators are being matched with topic experts from the community and are starting to build their workshops. Here’s what you have to look forward to.
Anuraj’s workshop will be about coping with cognitive effects of childhood cancer treatment. He’ll talk about day-to-day challenges; school, work, and life impacts, strategies to manage cognitive impacts, and how to find support if you need it.
Harman is going to teach other survivors about how meditation and mindfulness can be used to influence behaviour. Some of his topics will be: the mind/body connection, being mindful of how we talk to ourselves, how to start meditating and cognitive behavioural therapy.
Sara’s workshop is called, “Will They Understand? The Personal Disclosure Dilemma at School and Work.” She’ll discuss when, how much and what personal health information to disclose; why it’s important; the pros and cons of disclosure; who to talk to for support and information; and your legal rights.
If you’re considering college as your academic path, Emelia will teach you how to get on it and what to expect, including: classroom accommodations/accessibility services, programs for people with disabilities or high school certificates, ways to pay for college, different pathways to college, and living at home or in residence.
All workshops will be hosted virtually. Information about the workshop dates and how to register will be coming soon.
Creative Corner with Josh - eNews
Josh is an incredibly talented guitar player, who also happens to be a survivor. Check out his video!
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If you have an interest in learning how to play guitar (or just want to hear great music), he is your man! To see and hear more of Josh:
YouTube: @Josh Taylor–Brown
Facebook: @Josh Taylor-Brown Music
Instagram: @J.tbrown
If you’re interested in taking guitar lessons, Josh would love to hear from you at jtaylorbrownz28@gmail.com
Creative Corner with Kathleen - eNews
Kathleen Landayto is a graduate of George Brown College's Graphic Design program. She loves being a freelance graphic designer, and has recently started illustrating custom pieces for clients. She enjoys the work and loves that it brings her clients joy every time they look at it.
This piece is one of her latest digital drawings. She created it using the Procreate app and applied a watercolour art style. Kathleen says, “With digital art, you can use layers to achieve the final look. I started by defining the body shape, added light and shadow values for depth and finished it off on the 30th layer. This final layer adds minor but important details such as whiskers and fur lines, making the subject come to life.”
Follow Kathleen on Instagram @_kal.art, or email her at k.landayto@gmail.com
Kathleen is an ALL survivor.
