Childhood Cancer: A Mighty Purpose Adapted from Lia Goh’s speech at the 2019 POGO PJ Party
My name is Lia Goh. I am 12 years old and I am a cancer survivor.
When I was three years old, I was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia. I went through three years of treatments, including chemotherapy. I lost all of my hair; it almost grew back blonde!! And I received more blood transfusions than I can remember.
In fact, I don’t remember a lot about my cancer or its treatment.
Like how my parents had to take leave from work and my family rented an apartment in Toronto because I spent most of that first year in the hospital. Or how I was in isolation for a lot of that year. Or how I spent so much time in bed that my muscles atrophied, and my dad had to carry me everywhere.
I am old enough now to realize how lucky I am. I am lucky to have the support and love of family and friends. I am lucky that my parents had the freedom and the financial means to take the time off work to be with me. Many families don’t have that luxury. I am lucky to have benefitted, and I will continue to benefit, from the support of some incredible organizations, such as POGO.
And my dad always says that I am especially lucky to have benefitted from so many kids that came before me. From the research that has been done, and so many incredible services that have been created to support kids with cancer, their families and survivors like me.
From the time my brother and I were little, my dad would read a poem to us called “The Champion's Creed.” In it, there is a line that has always stuck with me:, “Dedicate yourself to a mighty purpose.”
I can’t think of anything more mighty than helping to beat childhood cancer. So, I feel responsible to do as much as I can for all the kids who are fighting this battle now and all who will be fighting it in the future.
Watch Lia deliver her full speech here. Video courtesy of Natasha McKenty.
What Price Do Families Pay When a Child has Cancer?
You’re young and recently wed. You’ve started a family and are trying to make ends meet financially. You used to think eating lunches out was a big expense. Now there are diapers, special food, daycare, sports and other activities, and the need for more space! Hiring a sitter so you can go to dinner and a movie costs more than the dinner and movie! Your spending priorities have shifted but for the most part you’re managing.
Then your eldest child starts to bruise easily, gets fevers often and doesn’t want to eat. Over a relatively short period of time you are told your child has cancer. Leukemia. You’re assured that survival is good and your child has a good chance to beat this. But the treatment hospital is over an hour’s drive away. You have to plan for many nights in the hospital; and your first stay will be weeks long. Either you or your partner has to stay with your ill child while the other is at home with your youngest. Travel-related expenses, including meals and accommodations, increased daycare costs and the realization that one of you won’t be able to go back to work for what will likely be a long time. Ugh. Of course you don’t think much about finances at the start. You are focused on keeping everything together and making sure your ill child will survive. But slowly the costs become apparent. The credit card bills roll in. So much for managing.
This is a common storyline among families of a child with cancer. Although most of the treatment is paid for by the government or private insurance, there are large costs associated with a child’s cancer care, the largest most often being a loss of nearly half the family income due to one parent leaving the workforce. This is a well-known issue among researchers. They know the financial costs in the early part of the diagnosis and treatment are huge. But what researchers haven’t figured out is how families do in the long term. What is the financial health of the family three, five or 10 years after the diagnosis? Does this kind of health crisis turn into a chronic financial condition for the family? Does the family ever recover financially?
New research by POGO is linking data from its cancer registry (POGONIS) to copies of Canadian tax returns stored at Statistics Canada. Families who experience a diagnosis of childhood cancer are being compared to families who do not experience cancer and are similar in age to the parents, in number and age of the children, where they live and income at the time of diagnosis. The researchers can then follow both family types over time and compare what likely ‘could’ have happened to the cancer family financially to what did happen.
This research is ongoing—the comparison families are now being identified—but so far we can see that a child’s cancer diagnosis stalls household income growth for about a year after the diagnosis, after which household income continues to climb. Of more interest is that families whose child dies after the diagnosis start their family life with lower household income compared to families with children that survive, after which the household income follows the same pattern of income growth. More on this story is yet to come, as this research will also examine the financial impact of the difference in cancer type. Stay tuned!
Dr. Jason Pole is the Principal Investigator on the study Long-term Economic Consequences of a Childhood Cancer Diagnosis. He is Senior Scientist with the Pediatric Oncology Group of Ontario; an Associate Professor in the Dalla Lana School of Public Health, University of Toronto; Adjunct Scientist with The Hospital for Sick Children Research Institute; and Adjunct Senior Scientist at ICES, Toronto. Dr. Pole has a background in epidemiology and health services research with an emphasis in the use of administrative data and complex survey instruments.
Related Resources
- "Financial Hardship in Adult Survivors of Childhood Cancer," presentation at 2018 POGO AfterCare Education Day. Download PDF
- POGO Surveillance Report
- Childhood Cancer Care Plan
New POGO Clinic Helps Teen Stay Connected with Friends
In September 2018, at the launch of the new POGO Pediatric Oncology Satellite Clinic at Peterborough Regional Health Centre (PRHC), Theresa Serracino-Inglott, husband Mario and son Anthony spoke on behalf of the parents and young patients who will be receiving care.
Last year in late August, Anthony was gearing up to start his Grade 11 year when he was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL). Anthony spent most of his first six months at SickKids hospital because of complications and an extremely tough protocol for his high-risk diagnosis. Throughout the past year – and more so in the last six months – the Pediatric Outpatient or POP Clinic at PRHC has been our second home.
In April, Anthony was here for supportive care close to 20 days, and every day he was greeted with a smile and the exceptional care we have come to know from Shay Cannon and the POP Clinic Team. This was such a relief because as parents of children with a cancer diagnosis, we are continually being bombarded with difficult and gut-wrenching fears – and leaving the safety of SickKids Hospital is one of them.
Having to take your child to a new place for their care and allowing unfamiliar medical staff to provide treatment leaves us parents feeling vulnerable and scared – but once we walked through the doors of the POP Clinic and met Shay and the POP Clinic team, our fears subsided. Anthony immediately made a connection with the staff that has only strengthened over the months. Being closer to home to attend to such things as his fevers and blood work has meant a lot to Anthony. When he was admitted with a fever and had to stay at PRHC for more than a couple of days, it meant that his friends could easily come and keep him company to pass the time.
Throughout this time, the POP Clinic team was already beginning the transition to become an official POGO Satellite Clinic, which included staff training in all of the specialized areas of care we knew Anthony would need.
Now that this is an official POGO Satellite site, I can’t help but think of “future POGO families” in our area. Perhaps today, the news of the new clinic may not even register, but when they are burdened with their child’s diagnosis, they will have these things to ease their journey:
- Closer access to chemo treatments
- A “fever card” that is our direct route to the in-patient unit, allowing us to bypass emergency
- Coordinated care between PRHC and SickKids that meets the high standard of care that POGO Satellite Clinics deliver
- A trusting relationship with qualified staff that go above and beyond for patients in their care
- Support from other POGO families that become lifelong friends because of this journey they’ve shared together
Having a POGO Clinic close to us makes life as a parent a whole lot easier. Feeling financially strapped is a common thread among families of children with cancer and satellite clinics give some relief to that. The shorter distance helps us save money on gas for the car, the need to eat out, motel costs, and childcare needed for siblings.
Anthony has already benefitted from shorter clinic visits. This is important because as a teen with cancer, many occasions have been missed because of treatment. Having the accessibility of the POGO Clinic gets him back to his friends who play a very important part in his recovery.
Parents of children with cancer certainly would have never chosen this path for our children, but because this is where we find ourselves, I want to say how grateful we are to POGO and to Peterborough Regional Health Centre for making it possible for families like ours to have an official POGO Satellite Clinic right in our community. We can’t thank you enough for easing the burden by keeping many aspects of our child’s cancer treatment closer to home. Thank you.
Read the media release
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Your baby has cancer
These four words are forever unforgettable. On May 26, 2015, my wife, Christine, and I had taken our 18-month-old daughter, Charlotte, to see a pediatrician at Grand River Hospital near our home. She was not herself—low energy and very pale. This was the third doctor’s visit that week and we were determined not to leave without answers. After a full morning of tests, Charlotte was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL). We were brought to our knees. Shocked and scared, we learned her hemoglobin was at the dangerous level of 33 and we were rushed to Children’s Hospital in London for an emergency blood transfusion and the start of our cancer journey.
The next 16 days were filled with more transfusions, a surgery to implant her port, various procedures and the start of chemotherapy. We were introduced to doctors and nurses whom we’ve now come to think of as family, and we have learned as much as we could about this type of cancer and its treatment. The days were filled with procedures and the nights were mostly sleepless. It was an extremely difficult time but the silver lining was the care and respect we felt from every member of our medical team. As scared as we were, they gave us the strength to get through those days together as a family. We learned Charlotte’s treatment would span nearly two and a half years. It was at that point we decided Christine would leave her career to care for Charlotte full time. In a blink of an eye our lives turned upside down. We were terrified on many levels but we became quickly resigned to the start of this journey.
When it came time to be discharged, we were asked to stay in London to be close to the hospital until Charlotte had completed the induction stage of treatment. Leaving the security of the hospital was scary for us. We would no longer have a nurse on call to help answer questions or problem-solve at any time of the day or night.
On our last day we met Julie Dowler, our nurse case manager. Immediately we took to her kind and compassionate nature. Christine remembers their first email exchange that day. Julie told her, “Now we are family,” and she meant it. To this day, we still feel like we are her only patients. It was her support and reassurance that gave us the confidence to take the next step and leave the hospital that day.
While staying at my in-law’s home those next two weeks, we had a visit from Margaret Warden, our POGO Interlink Nurse. She helped to educate us further on leukemia as well as the role POGO would play in our lives. We learned about the generous POGO financial assistance available for childcare, food and accommodations, as well as information on the POGO Satellite Clinics. My wife and I had so many questions about what we could expect in the coming months and Margaret took her time to answer every one. Having her undivided attention in our home was comforting and we felt even more secure about Charlotte’s care.
We were counting down the minutes to the end of the induction phase. Charlotte had the full effects of the steroid treatment and in just a month our baby girl became almost unrecognizable. She was still only a baby and not able to communicate her needs or feelings. I remember she would clap her hands in frustration to get our attention. It was completely heartbreaking for our family.
At the end of induction, we were given permission to go home to Cambridge. Once home and settled, we started visiting the POGO Satellite Clinic at Grand River Hospital. It was such a relief to be able to get some of Charlotte’s treatments in our community. It meant I could go back to work and we could feel our lives starting to return somewhat to normal. Patti Bambury, our Satellite Nurse Coordinator, and one of Charlotte’s favourite people, takes great care of us. I’ve been impressed with the way the POGO Satellite Clinic communicates with our team at Children’s Hospital. We’ve never felt a disconnect in Charlotte’s care. Another thing we appreciate about Grand River Hospital is its small size. There are rarely more than a few families there for treatment at the same time so it tends to be a relaxed atmosphere. Christine and I have found comfort in connecting with the other parents while our children enjoy the play area. With only three main nurses, whom we’ve come to know very well, it feels very much like a family and this has gone a long way to improving Charlotte’s anxiety at clinic visits.
POGO opens 8th Satellite Clinic to Support Families in Peterborough area
Like all families on this journey, we’ve had our challenges to overcome. Charlotte’s first port developed a blood clot and she had to endure three months of twice daily blood thinner injections. Two other port surgeries and a PICC line were to follow. On top of this, there was a period of time where she would spit out her medication and we would have to practically hold her down to get her to take it. The worry and stress this cancer has caused in our lives has been insurmountable. My wife and I have both gone through our own stages of anxiety and depression at different times.
Trying to remain strong for Charlotte has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.
Now that we are nearly a year and a half into Charlotte’s treatment, we have learned how resilient and inspiring children are. Even on the bad days, there is always laughter. The life lessons I’ve learned from my two-year-old will carry me through the rest of my life.
Thank you POGO for your support, your financial assistance and for setting up the Satellite Clinics so families like mine can live more normal lives while still getting the care our children need.
Mike Anstead is the proud father of Charlotte.
"Charlotte turned 5 years old in November 2018 and is thriving in Kindergarten! Every medical follow up appointment finds her stronger and stronger and we are at the point where living with cancer is no longer a part of our daily lives. Life is wonderful, once again!"
- Mom Christine Sarlius, December 2018
Related Resources
Read The Childhood Cancer Care Plan to see how POGO is planning long-term to care for children like Charlotte.
Review The POGO Surveillance Report for the most recent 5-year data on trends in childhood cancer in Ontario.
Check out the presentations from Leukemia: Successes, Advances, Challenges, the theme of POGO's 2016 Annual Multi-Disciplinary Symposium on Childhood Cancer.
